AA Поделиться

Diary of A PH Girl

Life ooh Life, Life is full of ups and downs and it takes only the brave to come out of the hurdles of life. Life as a teenage PH girl can be termed the Good , the bad and the ugly. 

Life as a teenage PH girl who lived with her father and step mother who raised and taught her how to read queen premier every time when she will cry whenever she was called upon by her step mother to read, she will be asked to cry a fill up bucket because of fear. Life as a pH girl whose dad was a strong disciplinarian and would not hesitate to use the rod whenever you are seen playing outside or fighting with your peer group. Life of a PH girl who met her mum when at the age of 11 through a classmate. the life of a PH girl from a family of 13 girls  and 3 boys  was a tale of the proper polygamy's homes which comes with its own challenges of discrimination, preferential treatment amongst the kids whose mum is not in the house. Life of a Ph girl was one who wished to leave the house early enough due to the discrimination going on in the house. the life of a ph girl was one who hand to go to trek to school bear footed come back and carry mineral and water to sell on her head before the next meal as things were not really smooth at home. Life of a PH girl was one who wished she was never born as it was a struggle to get by during her university days and she always wished to kill herself. until life shown at her after university and she got a job. Life of a ph girl was one who had only friends to fall back on incase of financial and emotional crises due to her polygamous family background . Life of a PH girl took a nose dive after the 2020 pandemic and she lost her job and almost committed sucide because she lost a lot of money and didn't know how to start all over from the scratch. it the grace of God and intervention of friends who encouraged her to not beat her self any more as every disappointment is a blessing. Life of a Ph girl is not been easy but she's moving gradually but worried over a lot of bills . house rent, she can nearly feed , she currently took an underpaid job just to get by but it been crazy, she's lost a lot of weight as her mind is still all over the place. but she's still hopefully that God in his infinit mercy will show up as he said he will not put us in situations we will not  be able to handle. Dear Diary of a PH girl the lord will see you through and this too shall pass be strong and know God's timing is not our timing. Remain blessed.

27 ноября 2021 г. 20:46 0 Отчет Добавить 0
~

The Society doesn't raise a child the family does.

Life can be funny a lot of times it throws opportunities our way but we miss it due to our belief system or our ability to see beyond the present now. it's quite difficult for a lot of people who do not have a support system toget a job orsetup a business in a country called nigeria where people will do anything to afford a meal for the day.


How did we get to this point? a lot of people will ask but one thing we must not forget the society does not raise the child ! the family does reason we have the kind of leaders we have in power today because it shows the kind of family values that was instilled in them as growing kids.


Have the family failed in raising their kids aright? the question a lot of people in the African setting will argue over! the family have failed to an extent in the afriacn setting because it's only in the African homes girls are raised differently and boys are raised differently. you ask how? well the african parents will raised the girl child solely for marriage hence you see a lot of young ladies who think there sole purpose on earth is to get married and have kids. Don't get me wrong marriage is sweet and honorable. while the male child is raised to be the man of the house not to clean or cook the basic skill for surviving hence we have too many young menwho think a woman's role in a marriage is just to cook and clean the house . hello!!!!!!!!!!!! the world is advance and we are in an era where women are currently dominating positions which were solely meant for menF

27 ноября 2021 г. 20:40 0 Отчет Добавить 0
~
Читать далее Исходная страница 1