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Question 1. Are our kids happy now? Would they be more or less happy long term if we follow through?


Question 2. If we were to let go of this, would we be able to find happiness apart from each other?


Question 3. Are we prepared to live below our current lifestyle? Neither of us earn what our spouses make, so some things we are able to do now may not be practical.


Question 4. With that lower family income, are we able to provide for our kids, and meet their needs effectively so that their care and safety is not taken into question?



Consolidation of finances. What debts are you responsible for?
Add to that individual monthly costs: Cell phone, vehicle insurance, life insurance. Outside of things required for living, what are any luxury essentials we "need"?


I dont have a credit card and would prefer to maintain that, however I know they are useful in extenuating circumstances. Also, I am not opposed to us having separate accounts, if you feel that might make some things easier and give you the freedom to control your own money. Not my prefered option but I do understand wanting to buy things for each other and that type of thing. I would want us to work together to maintain our finances though. Set a designated time that we budget and review our expenses.


Childcare: On days or weeks we have both, I would imagine they would be attending different schools. How do we propose getting them to and from? Would it be prudent for me to get a night shift job to manage transportation for them? And also considering days when they are not in school, mine goes to one of the grandmothers houses.

Jobs: I will always encourage you to go for whatever job improves you or makes you happy. I do plan on going for that class to get a CNC job, but if I do that soon I intend to repay her for putting up the money (esp since it was her emergency fund she is planning to use to fund it).

Living arrangements: Between separation, divorce, and time for us to plan marriage (would you want to go ahead and try for a wedding or do a courthouse marriage and have a blowout renewal ceremony?), where do you plan on living?

Personal morals: I would rather not be living together until we are actually married. I know that might be an odd hangup considering things we have already done and all.

Church: Im not going to say we have to go to a pentecostal church, however, of all of the denominations I have attended, that is where i feel the most at home. There are some baptist churches that lean into some pentecostal thinking and vise versa. Not sure how you lean in your preference, more on the conservative line or a bit free thinking. I am somewhat in between personally.

Discipline: I think we are about the same in that aspect, warning/reprimand, then timeout, then corporal punishment depending on the offence and all. I know i am a bit lenient up to a point, unless its a respect thing. Also how would we approach discipline towards each others child?

Do you want another baby? I know weve both dreamed about it, but can we handle another? Financially, physically, mentally?


Any other questions you can think of?














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Sean Elliot I write mostly because and about my Starlight, a person very close to me and something more. The twin of my own soul. I write mostly poetry, but also some short stories.

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SL Star Light
I love you. I’m headed to get my girl 🥰😘😘
August 29, 2022, 19:02

  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    Love you so much. Have a good day and be safe August 29, 2022, 19:14
  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    Good morning love August 30, 2022, 11:36
SL Star Light
Sexy
August 29, 2022, 19:02
SL Star Light
Of course. I’m sure I will be super sore lol
August 29, 2022, 18:44

  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    I can imagine. Ive started a new workout set, lots of twisting and cardio type stuff August 29, 2022, 18:52
SL Star Light
So I’m starting Valkyrie work outs today😁
August 29, 2022, 18:35

  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    😍🤩 thats awesome! August 29, 2022, 18:36
  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    Let me know how it goes, i would love to do that with you August 29, 2022, 18:43
SL Star Light
☺️
August 29, 2022, 18:32

SL Star Light
You are such a tease
August 29, 2022, 18:02

  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    I think you like it...🤤 August 29, 2022, 18:05
  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    And I like teasing you... just havent truly teased you yet... August 29, 2022, 18:09
SL Star Light
Oh I wish you were here right now
August 29, 2022, 17:46

  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    Me too my love. I want to make you mine, make love to you in all the ways we can until we both pass out, wake up, eat something and do it again, until either I cant 'rise' anymore or until we are both so sore from it we cant walk straight for a week August 29, 2022, 17:55
SL Star Light
If you tell me to 😏 if you are taking me I want you to tell me what you want from me. How you want me.
August 29, 2022, 17:26

  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    🥵 I think feeling your fingers while i thrust... grr August 29, 2022, 17:41
SL Star Light
Omg yes💦💦
August 29, 2022, 17:20

  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    Would you play while I take you? August 29, 2022, 17:24
SL Star Light
Would you fuck me gently or would you take me from behind rough and fast
August 29, 2022, 17:05

  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    If im claiming you baby, im not going to be gentle the first time. I want to wrap my fingers in your hair, pull your head back as I slam into you. Drag my nails down your skin as i lean back to watch as my cock disappears, pounding into that delicious pussy. I want you to be loud baby, i want you to cry out as i thrust deeply into you August 29, 2022, 17:12
SL Star Light
I want you to kiss my neck and mark me wherever you want
August 29, 2022, 16:56

  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    I want to mark you everywhere baby, make it so you cant help but see each bruise and scratch in the mirror and smile remembering how I made each one as I claimed you over and over August 29, 2022, 16:59
SL Star Light
Mmmm also no bra 😏
August 29, 2022, 16:52

  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    Mmm, that thought makes me want to pounce on you... hold you down and suck and lick on your nipples until you moan your dirty thoughts to me August 29, 2022, 16:55
SL Star Light
Wearing a star wars shirt and coffee pajama pants☺️
August 29, 2022, 16:45

  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    I dont know, imagining you in pjs... kinda sexy... no buttons or zippers in the way, i could just slide a hand under the hem of any article of clothing and have access to bare skin underneath August 29, 2022, 16:50
SL Star Light
Was gonna come by but it wasn’t an option. Plus I’m in my rawest form lol Jammies and a mom bun.
August 29, 2022, 16:34

  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    Sorry love. And that image in my head is pretty cute August 29, 2022, 16:37
  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    Havent had a chance to write yet lol. Just now got to my truck August 29, 2022, 16:39
SL Star Light
Mexican
August 29, 2022, 16:20

SL Star Light
What ya eating
August 29, 2022, 16:15

SL Star Light
Lovely
August 29, 2022, 16:09
SL Star Light
What about you?
August 29, 2022, 15:10

  • Sean Elliot Sean Elliot
    Helping the crew with a wonder wall on clearance bay lol August 29, 2022, 16:05
SL Star Light
Laundry mostly
August 29, 2022, 14:59
SL Star Light
None we haven’t already discussed
August 29, 2022, 14:32

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